I feel like…..

I’ve spent the majority of my time yesterday & this morning updating the contents of my blog, I added to some pages in the Jolene section, as well as added a new chapter to The Paranormal Effect in the writing section. Of course I have been joining fanlistings and discovering new websites (I wouldn’t be me, if I didn’t).

I really don’t feel good today though, I’ve had a terrible migraine since this morning and as a sufferer of chronic migraines…nothing really makes them go away. I decided to lay down about noon and try to go to sleep, D was watching a show and was making a ton of noise so I didn’t really get a lot of sleep. The trouble of living in a studio apartment.

Got a check in the mail from a survey about Mark TEN e cigarettes I did awhile go, so very happy after I got my mail this afternoon. Plans for the rest of the day are, waiting for D to get back so I can try and make it to the check cashing place before they close. I wanted to try to write today, as I currently have four novel’s (The Paranormal Effect, Broken, Unhappily ever after & Mystery Man).

Hoping this queasy feeling goes away. If I didn’t know better, I’d say I’m pregnant. 

Good Afternoon

The content sections are up, you can get to them under Menu on the side and they are targeted to go into a new tap (if you are on a laptop or computer) or a new window if you are on a phone (I get a lot of people on phones). They are all targeted the same, so you won’t be able to have them all open at the same time unless you right click on them.

Some sections I am still working on, but the writing & site sections are completely up. I have all my poetry up and the three novels that I am working on, so check those out.


Good Wednesday Morning

I started off this morning at four and started to check my main email which currently (and always it seems) has over 1500 emails in the inbox. These emails are mostly surveys from the different survey companies I am a member of and email from different communities or panels I have been invited too. Some are companies that held contests and now I get their emails, ect.

I had a couple of emails from bloglovin and I came across http://thepioneerwoman.com/ in one of those emails, I remember watching her show when I actually had the food network channel. So for the last two hours instead of checking email, I have been on her site.

I am enjoying a cup of coffee and putting off hanging up this laundry that we did last night and BF rung out before he left for class. Tried out some detergent that I got in a sample last month from samplesource.com and it smells so good.

I am planning (please note I said planning) on doing a couple of product reviews this weekend as I have gotten (and bought) some new things in the last couple of weeks. I’d rather do them when He is not here so maybe tomorrow or Friday I can get one or two done.

Stop remaking The Amityville movie ; Please.

Came across this article tonight and someone is attempting to remake this movie again for what seems like the ninth time, the idea is dead and its been done over and over and over. I, myself, haven’t seen any of the movies because I think they are dumb in all honesty, The other major reason is that the murders really happened and I think it’s in bad taste to make movies about “supposed demons” being the reason that this family’s son killed them.

The true story has been over dramatized on film and people seem to forget (or don’t even know) that people were really murdered in that house.

I really think people are running out of good ideas for horror movies, the same ideas just keep getting used,

Three ways I save money on a monthly basis

Three ways that I personally use to save money every month

On Food: We all need food and food costs a lot of money.

At our house we order a monthly meat package, the place we order from delivers and has a lot of different meat packages as well as deli packages. This month we started ordering a deli package as well as a meat package and then just filled in at our local grocery store. Ordering a meat and deli package is way cheaper then buying meat at the grocery store and we get more bang for our buck. If you live in the Buffalo area I recommend Bobs Price Rite. They offer same day delivery if you order before Ten that morning. The delivery people are really nice and if you spend more then Twenty dollars you get a free box of little debby snacks, We ordered both a meat and deli package this month so we got two boxes.

On Laundry:

We rarely do laundry at a laundromat and we really only do big items there like blankets. A year and a half ago, money was really tight and we didn’t have extra money for anything and we were even had to go to food pantries monthly (this was before we started ordering meat packages). We had to do laundry by hand and what we have found is that it saves us a lot of money and even though we are not in the same place (money wise) as we were then, we still do laundry by hand.

On Entertainment:

I don’t pay for things I can get for free and this includes books,movies,tv shows,games,ect…there are plenty of ways around paying for things online. For ebooks, I have a very large section of ebooks and if you want a book (even new releases) I can get it for you…just comment. Tv shows & movies: Putlocker & 123movies are the sites that I personally use.


Awake 48 hrs & counting

As of midnight I had been awake for 48 hours, I spent Friday night downloading custom content for the sims, surfing sims forums and building a house in the sims. Last night I decided to work on this site and it took me two hours and I am still not tired.

I made separate layouts for different sections: Webmistress, Writings (poetry,stories,ect) & site info. I was going to work on those sections tonight (this morning) however I don’t feel like it. The layouts are done (graphic wise), I just have to code and get the pages up.

The three sections each have their own layout (They look the same, just different colors) and won’t be on wordpress. As I complete them, I will link them on the index. The writing one will probably be up last as it will be the most time consuming.

When I am done with these, I will keep them & change the layouts as I change this one so they match somewhat. This is my birthday layout and there won’t be another until at least late August.

I don’t plan on spending much time at home this summer. I am going to attempt to get some sleep, can’t wait until Monday.

Extreme violence mod & house I built

I built this house today and its the first one I felt really comfortable uploading to the gallery, it’s a one bedroom 2 bathroom. The first floor is an open floor plan and the second floor is the master bedroom & master bath. It’s on the gallery, my origin name is Joleneisjojo


So I am on the sims studio forum and I come across the extreme violence mod: here is the trailer

I downloaded it but haven’t played it in game yet. I’ve been getting bored with game play, so I am going to test it out today.



Bought a new game

I finally bought the sims 4 base game last month and I know I am all late, I bought it because it was on sale at amazon for twenty dollars and I had amazon gift cards and I was only short six dollars. D was playing xbox when I saw it was on sale so I told him it was twenty dollars and I was short six, and he handed me his card and told me to get it so I did.

I haven’t been playing that much but when I got paid, I paid for a VIP membership at thesimsresource , mostly because I was sick of the ads and it was only three dollars. I have been doing a lot of downloading. Today I got the amazon gift card in the mail from tellwut for ten dollars and I wanted to buy a stuff pack.

I ended up with the bowling one, it looks fun.

In another life

I don’t talk about my son on here for the simple fact that I don’t want to answer questions about why I don’t have him and why I haven’t seen him, ect ect ect. The other reason is that it’s none of anyone’s business why my son is not with me, that is between me & his father.

However my son is getting older now, He will be 14 next month and as time continues to pass by I wish I would have done things differently. I received a instant message from his father on facebook last night with pictures and a couple of videos from a recent visit he had with him.

When I chose to sign my rights away I did so for him and no one else, my mom  completely erased the fact that I raised him by myself for four years and say’s she only has 4 grandkids (my brothers kids) when people ask and it feels like a slap in the face.

I chose the family I wanted to adopt my son before I signed my rights away and on the day the foster mother took me to see him (he was 7 then) and I haven’t seen him in person since, the adoption ended up falling through and a new family adopted him in 2011. I have seen pictures and videos but besides that I don’t have any contact.